Love and Sex in Marriage

Sex can keep your marriage strong and lack of sex can destroy your marriage. When there are sexual problems in your marriage, there is quite possible that the two of you will separate within 12 months. Two ways to keep your sex life active is to make time for one another and to talk with each other.
By Sheri & Bob Stritof, About.com Guides

Female Orgasm

Both mind and body play a very important role in a person or couple's experience of sexuality that is certain. Let's take a look at orgasm. The more we learn about female orgasm, it seems that the structure of a woman's genitals may play a role in her ease of orgasm. Personality factors, which are at least partly accounted for by genetic make up, are also linked to women's ease of orgasm. 

Don't Judge Your Sex Drive(cont..)

For women in particular, arousal and orgasm can take a lot of time and attention after the alteredbrain chemistry of the honeymoon stage wears off. As marriage expert Pat Love described it, (referring to lower-testosterone women) first you have to focus, focus, and focus some more, until you get exactly the right erotic fantasy in mind. Then, of course, a spot on the ceiling (is it a water stain?) or a thought about the laundry distracts you (should I have put the linen pants in the washer?) and you have to start working all over again until finally, finally, you have your orgasm.